Well changing email addresses from the blogmail one to the stashbuster one let more messages thru but still only about 50% of comments are going to my email. So I've changed again to a gmail account. Surely google will let messages from their blog accounts go to their email accounts without thinking it's spam. I did a test comment and it immediately went thru. Now maybe I can once again reply to your comments.
Ny new email address for blogging will be firstname.lastname@example.org. I'll still answer mail to the other 2 addresses (assuming GoDaddy lets them thru) but for the most part this will be the address you should write to. The few of you who I've given my work address can also still use it if it's during a work day and you need a response fairly quickly.